The Silent Treatment

Hey,

Been's a really long time since i've written. Anyway, thought of writing about anger today. Many people have different ways of being angry and dealing with it. Like Soonee, she has to vent it out on everyone, and she has to make noise, but after that, she's back to normal. But i am completely different.

Out of a whole range of emotions, probably anger is the most weirdest. I can easily feel love, happiness, glee, even sadness comes to me easily but anger is the most oddest of all.

I am a pretty tolerant person, and i rarely do get angry. I get frustrated more often than angry, these two emotions are completely different.

When i get angry, haha, people stay away! But seriously, stay away. It takes me some time to internalize it, and when i do, stay away! I have forewarned you. The good thing is i am not hot-tempered, and i absolutely hate when people throw their anger onto people whom they are not angry with. So a good thing is, i don't do that. I am absolutely normal with other people. The biggest clue to know if i am angry is that basically, i become very silent. I refuse to talk to that person who made me angry. Even if do, it's done very crudely. It's simply called the silent treatment.

And seriously, that wouldn't be a good time to apologize as well. All you should do is to just remain silent, and let me forget about it myself. This process probably takes about days, if it's a small matter, and maybe even a week, if it's pretty big. Do not try to call me, or pester me for an apology, i get even more irritated and things become worse. And whatever you do, please do try to justify your mistake and my anger, you might as well forget about making it up to me.

I get over it myself, and when i do, i'll be normal to you. Then it's fine to apologize, i will accept your apology, but do not ever make the same mistake again, and do not keep talking about it. Once it's over, it's over. Do not bring up the matter again, it's over with, so let it stay that way.

Then things will be back to normal, just for those couple few days, where you have to be tolerant, of my silent treatment. It works very well though. Makes many people come down to their knees, makes them very irritated, personally, it messes them up. Haha, they realize their mistake and come running back. I am not hot-tempered though, it's not like it comes and goes fast. When it comes, it really comes for some time, and goes away slowly. And i do not verbalize or scold you for it, like some people feel better doing that, i do not do that, i expect you to realize your own mistake and feel bad about it yourself.

Well, that's me. How about you? How do you deal with your anger? Talk? Ventilate? Cry it out? Whine about it? Haha, or the Silent Treatment, which no one does better than me.